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Are you afraid of your partner or boyfriend?
Have you ever been hurt or harmed by someone you live with or used
to live with? Have your children ever been hurt or threatened
by your partner?
Domestic violence is extremely common.
The statistics speak for themselves. Almost 44% of all incidents
reported by women to the British Crime Survey were domestic violence
incidents. A number of local surveys in the UK show between 1 in 3
and 1 in 4 women report having suffered domestic violence at some time
in their adult lives. Each year 45% of female homicide victims are
killed by present or former male partners compared to 8% of male victims.
On average 2 women per week are killed in England and Wales by their
partners or ex-partners. As many as 1 in 3 marriages that end in divorce
involve domestic violence.
For women, domestic violence may result in physical
injury and permanent physical damage, in homelessness, loss of employment,
loss of family, friends and children and importantly, in depression,
attempted suicide and mental illness. Women may experience high levels
of anxiety and panic attacks, or may develop disturbed patterns of eating
and sleeping, problems in concentrating and a feeling of hopelessness.
Domestic violence can begin at any stage of a relationship
and may continue long after the marriage or relationship has ended.
Abuse can take many forms, not just physical attacks but also many other
forms of controlling behaviour: bullying, forced sex, threats to kill,
threats to hurt children, forced isolation from friends or family,
and mental and verbal abuse and humiliation.
We all have a right to live free from fear and violence.
If you feel frightened, humiliated, ashamed, alone and confused - don’t blame yourself.
There are a number of options available for getting
protection from violence.
"If you are frightened of someone you know or live with, then you have
a right to be protected under the law",
says Kay Wimhurst, partner at Close Thornton Solicitors, Darlington.
"There are a number of ways in which you can get help:
- Being assaulted by someone you know or
live with is just as much a crime under the criminal law
as violence from a stranger. You have a right to protection
from the police and the courts.
- You can apply for a court order to tell
your abuser to stop harassing or hurting you, or to keep
him out of, or away from your home.
- If you are too frightened to stay at home,
you can get help with emergency or temporary accommodation.
- The law can also help to protect your
children and help you make safe arrangements for child contact."
Domestic violence is a problem in virtually all countries,
cultures, classes and income groups. In Japan, the growing political
influence of Japanese women was acknowledged earlier this year by the
passage of the country’s first law on domestic violence. It is only
in recent years, as the number of women in government and parliament
and at work has grown, that Japan has begun to consider domestic
violence as a social malaise. Since then it has quickly become apparent
that the problem exists on an alarming scale. A recent survey by
the municipal authorities in Osaka found that two-thirds of women
reported physical abuse by their partners. A central government study
last year found that 5% of wives feared for their lives, and one in
seven had received medical treatment after being beaten by their husbands.
Domestic violence is a major national concern.
Our judicial system can only play a small role in ending the cycle
of family violence. Launching a drive against domestic violence,
the Metropolitan police proposed a similar scheme to that in Cyprus
be set up, where dedicated courts deal with cases from assault to child
custody and divorce. They believe this would encourage more women
to come forward - those who would otherwise be deterred by multiple
hearings in different courts. The scheme, which was launched in
January aims to make violent partners face up to their crimes by
encouraging victims to come forward.
Closer to home, Darlington Borough Council,
Durham Constabulary and the Darlington Domestic Violence Forum are
working together on a new initiative to combat domestic violence and
its effect in Darlington. The "Get on Board" bus advertising campaign
was launched earlier this month. The campaign is planned to run for
6 months and will display a high profile image on the back of selected
buses along with posters inside. It is hoped that this initiative
will raise public awareness of the issues surrounding domestic violence
and make the clear statement that domestic violence is a crime and
will be treated as such.
If you are the victim of domestic violence then
it is important to act quickly to protect yourself.
Solicitors, the Police and social service agencies can be helpful
in steering an individual toward counselling programmes available
for victims of domestic violence. For more information or a confidential
interview please contact Kay Wimhurst at Close Thornton on 01325 466461.
For further information about this news release please contact
Close Thornton Solicitors Marketing and Media Department.
Tel: 01325 466461 or
e-mail.
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